The word on the street is Mark McGuire read the second half of my blog post from last week (“Random Thoughts”) and finally decided to admit he took steroids. Thanks Big Red. It only took you 10 years. And it wasn’t the slightest bit obvious (insert sarcasm). All joking aside, the year he broke the home run record, the measured circumference of his right forearm was an inch and half bigger than my neck! How in the hell could that be natural?!
OK, back on topic.
One of the toughest things to deal with as an adult is the concept that nothing in life is guaranteed. Except for death and taxes. And while I certainly despise paying taxes, my gut feeling is I would like death even less.
This concept of “nothing being guaranteed” is so evident in sports. Jim Valvano, the late coach of NC State and one of my favorite motivational speakers, once said something to the effect of:
“Just because you work hard doesn’t guarantee you will be successful. But not working hard guarantees you won’t be.”
Reigning NCAA National Champion coach Roy Williams said something similar:
“Working hard doesn’t guarantee success, but without it, you have no chance.”
Have you ever spent hours upon hours studying for a test… and still gotten a poor grade? Has your team ever spent hours upon hours practicing all week… and still lost the big game?
Of course you have! It happens to the best of us. Working hard and not achieving success is a tough pill to swallow. It is hard in basketball and it is hard in life. But it is a fact. And it is something every player and coach needs to come to terms with… because no one is immune. And when a minor setback (or failure) occurs, you have to learn from it, move past it, and get back to working hard again!
A young lady I had been working with for over a year, and who is a very accomplished high school player, tore her ACL a few weeks ago in a holiday tournament. She was having a phenomenal season (team was 7-2) and a stellar game (had already hit five 3’s) up to that point. Then, early in the second half on a drive to the basket, she landed awkwardly while being fouled. BAM! Just like that, she tore her ACL and her season was over.
Her father called me to tell me the bad news and told me she was devastated. As a senior, she was being recruited by several Division I schools, but unfortunately was waiting until the spring to sign… and she was distraught with thoughts that “no one would want her now.”
Personally, I was crushed by the news. I couldn’t sleep for two days. I really care about all the kids I work with and I felt terrible she was going through this. She is such an impressive young lady, both on and off the court.
Unable to sleep, all I kept thinking was, how could this have happened? She worked so hard this pre-season. She did everything I asked of her and did it to best of her ability. After a couple hours of staring at the ceiling, I went down to my office and reviewed my notes from our sessions. I took solace in knowing we did everything possible to try to reduce the occurrence of this happening. We incorporated numerous exercises and drills, every single workout, to reduce the likelihood of an ACL injury. We worked on proper landing. We worked on proper cutting. We properly strengthened every muscle and joint in her lower body. Honestly, I wouldn’t have done anything different. So thankfully, I don’t have to live with the woulda, coulda, shoulda’s. We worked hard all pre-season and literally did everything we could have done to prevent this. Yet, unfortunately, it still occurred.
I went to one of her team’s games last week to say hello, offer my support, and to speak to her father. We had a wonderful conversation and I promised him I would help her with every step of her recovery. I also told him I was confident she would still play college basketball. The road will be tough, and it is (obviously) not guaranteed, but my advice to her was to stay positive, get ready to get back to work… and things will work out for the best.
Now, I am a strength & conditioning coach… not a psychologist by any means. But I really believe after her short grieving period is over, she will need to re-focus and get back to working as hard as possible. I understand she is entitled to a period of time of feeling disappointed and depressed… but what’s done is done. She tore her ACL; it’s a fact. Nothing can be done to undo that now. Just like with an errant pass or a missed shot, it is time to move on to the next play!
The most influential factor in her future success on the court will be how she responds to this setback. This will be a real test of her character. I have full confidence she will come back better than ever because she has a tremendous attitude, relentless work ethic, and the mindset of a champion.
I am proud and thankful to claim an exemplary record over the past 10 years, with a particularly high rate of success for both injury prevention and performance enhancement. And even though I can say, with full confidence, we did everything “right” in regards to her pre-season preparation… an injury still occurred. We worked hard… and as we learned… success was not guaranteed (at least success in this particular instance). Fortunately, this is not the final chapter in her playing career.
It is imperative you understand that you can’t second guess the importance of working hard and of doing what is right just because things don’t turn out the way you want. You still need to make the conscious choice to consistently work hard in every aspect of your life (especially in your training). While the possibility of not achieving success is always looming, it is nothing to be feared, and certainly nothing to give in to. If you make a daily commitment to excellence, you will absolutely “win” more than you “lose.” And I am not talking about the scoreboard.
If you read my recent blog post, “What We Do”, you can see the lengths the Montrose Christian basketball program goes to in order to be successful. And yet we still (occasionally) lose games. Do you think losing a game causes us to second guess “What We Do?” No way! And when you have a setback, it shouldn’t cause you to second guess yourself either.
If you have any questions about ACL injury prevention (or recovery), or if I can ever be of service to you or your team, please don’t hesitate to email me at Alan@StrongerTeam.com. I promise to respond as quickly as possible.
If you haven’t done so, please check out (and subscribe) to www.YouTube.com/StrongerTeamDotCom. I just posted two videos of the Montrose Basketball Pre-Game Warm-up (one before we take the court and one on-court). Next week, I will post clips from a recent in-season strength training workout.
Also, for those of you who follow me at www.Twitter.com/AlanStein, or are my “friend” at www.Facebook.com/AlanSteinJr, I will be holding weekly trivia questions for folks to win some HOT prizes – like Nike and Jordan gear! All of the questions will come from my blog archive… so make sure you read past posts and study up.
Play hard. Have fun.
Alan Stein
